.Yet what Astrid doesn't understand however is a fact that both Ortega and O'Hara-- who possesses pair of sons-- can easily confirm: The reality that your relationship along with your moms and dads changes as well as progresses as you both grow older, and also hopefully for the better. "Your world centers around [your children] when they're children [and also] it is actually a lot work however attractive," O'Hara mentions. "Later, you truly overlook that, because after that you can not get all of them to do anything you prefer them to carry out, due to the fact that they start building their own minds, their personal viewpoints." And eventually, you wind up in the location O'Hara, whose sons reside in their 20s and also 30s, discovers herself today, capable to learn from her little ones. "They're merely such cool young people," she says. "I'm certainly not their friend, but I adore possessing conversations along with all of them and also learning more about just how they think about life.".